Monday, 19 January 2015

The Book of Faces

With one landmark evolution arises various other perspectives, lifestyle patterns and human behavioral systems. And if that particular evolution has certain driving factors like entertainment, information and connectivity to offer, it is there to stay boss!!! That makes Facebook as the real book of faces!

But, if we really think over it, why is Facebook so… so… so… damn hit, universally!!

Let’s evaluate Facebook as a reallllllly big brand. What does FB offer to its enormous user base?

·         Limitless information (Not really.)
·         Entertainment (Does it really amuse us? No…not exactly.)
·         Connectivity (Is this the way, we humans are designed to connect with each other? I don’t think so.)

The above points really don’t suffice for the actual meaning of Facebook. Now, just deep breathe and think by yourself…that when you reach your desk everytime for work right in the morning, what really instigates you to first login your Facebook account…???

Yes, it is that deep urge to socialize with the rest of the world. Let’s admit the fact that even those souls who are quite silent, shy and introvert are social animals. So is everyone else!

In a breakthrough study from Stanford University School of Medicine, researchers have shown that oxytocin - known as the “love hormone” is actually involved in a much broader range of social connections. The researchers discovered that oxytocin released through any type of social connectivity triggered the release of serotonin. In a chain reaction, the serotonin then activates the ‘reward circuitry’ of the nucleus accumbens resulting in a happy feeling. Nucleus accumbens is a region of the human brain that has an important role in pleasure including laughter, reward, and reinforcement learning, as well as fear, aggression, impulsivity, addiction, and the placebo effect.

Here we are…!

Facebook’s success can be credited to OXYTOCIN…THE LOVE HORMONE.

All of us are addicted to this ‘love hormone’.

Afterall, we are human beings and the feelings like pleasure, fear, aggression, addiction…are all about our very existence.



Raw Glamour at Railway Station

She was lying at railway station with such a calm and composed stature. It seemed to me as if the entire premise belonged to her. Resting her head on her right hand elbow and looking at the dirty horizon from the floor level; she looked handsome and beautiful. She must be sixty years young.

The faded pink petticoat had worn out frills at the bottom that unevenly revealed her dusky and wrinkled calves. The low neckline of her light green blouse and the random unhooked buttons made her provocatively charming. Her tiny midriff lied comfortably on the Kota Stone of that railway station. Her honey shaded eyes inspected the profile of every entry. Her messy grey hair did not even reach her delicate semi-nude shoulders.

The peace and solace she exuded as she puffed her bidi could snatch away the confidence of the world’s biggest druggist. She looked so calm and composed as if she could not hear the endless buzz at the railway station. Or else, I suppose she had organically grown out of that continuous turmoil which made her tough and comfortable.

As you could easily believe that the station was buzzing with people, luggage and noise; this lady enjoyed her absolute space with not even a single person coming within her 1m radius. I don’t understand about why she received such a vast space when there was such a commotion. May be, her stark boldness and confidence kept all at distance! Or may be, people conveniently assumed her to be a prostitute at station!

Watching her was an experience! I fell in love with those wrinkles which had draped her entire body.

Being from this male dominant planet, my eyes are not used to witness such a generous, confident and comfortable female body show. That was the reason; I was just magnetized by her majestic silhouette which very conveniently made me forget to click her. I missed it. Or I should say, the rest of the world missed the sight that I witnessed!

To me, she looked super sexy, eccentric and magnificent!

Porn-amentation

Porn tempts all! 

And little bit of it, here and there doesn’t harm actually. Infact, porn in limited amount could be highly beneficial for your health and well-being. Like we say, controlled consumption of alcohol could be beneficial for our health.

All of us watch porn movies. Desi as well as firang. But, we are not usually very comfortable talking about it in public. We may talk about it in our inner circle of friends, but we seldom discuss it with the outer circle. What restricts us? Is it that we might get the tag of ‘dirty soul’? …or is it that people might conveniently think that we don’t have a healthy sex life in real?

Sex is essential for life. We must do, see, feel, talk and smell sex. The more passionate people are about something, the less they talk about it. Is it that we are usually considered a fool or a clown when we express our madness about something? Is it that we are laughed or mocked off amidst the crowd when we express our madness? And we feel as if people are laughing on our infant baby! But then, our courage, our risk taking capacity defines us.

Few are there who express themselves freely and wildly. They achieve the unachievable as the entire world is aware about their intention and the complete cosmic system helps them do that. All the various energies synchronize with their very existence and help make things happen in real.

Masses are usually insecure and afraid. Therefore, they are here to follow. They copy.
Going back from where we started…we all love porn but we hardly discuss it. The recent example of proving that we all are somehow attracted towards porn is that Ragini MMS 2 was a success and the movies released alongside it did not receive much acclaim. No issues…but then why do people pass a fishy smile when the name ‘Sunny Leone’ springs up from somewhere?

What makes them do that? Is it just due to the fact that she has been a porn star? Sheer hypocricy!!!

Masses like to cover up things. They feel confident and secured when things are under wraps. Every adult watches porn in some point of his/her life but many times in some dark corner of the home, at night.

Anything that is draped with ornaments is loved and talked about but the thing that is nude and bold…is loved only in privacy!